Judy & Lindsay:
I have used the same ISP for years now and have had no problems with them. They host two web sites as well as hold all my photos for eBay. They have changed their name now but it still is the same company. It is: www.hostway.com.
The only thing is it may be more than Pair Com in that it is webhosting as well as FTP space. However, there are tons of disk space on the basic account and the Bandwidth is very generous.
You might want to at least give them a look - they may have what you want/need. Sorry to see all of the problems you are having with PhotoBucket. I've come across other people who have had the same problem. Let's hope they keep things the same for you for a while until you can get your FTP site problems worked out.